Porn Film Festival Amsterdam stands for plurality, art, pleasure and community. Our overarching objective is to create an exciting and accessible space for very different bodies and sexualities to come together. We explore desire in all its diversity, addressing urgent questions with a positive and creative attitude.

From February 6 to 9, we celebrate sex with films, workshops, talks, performances, art installations and two parties.

Soft Cock Pleasure
Why are soft cocks a taboo in our society and in porn? 
This workshop aims to de-stigmatize the soft cock, reclaiming its pleasure potential through playful and fun embodiment exercises, while making space for conversation about our own judgements and perspectives on the topic. Participants are supported to create a counter-normative erotic space that does not depend on having a hard penis. We will demonstrate soft cock massage techniques for enhancing flaccid pleasure, and we’ll offer optional partnered practice time using Mr. Limpy’s, our sexy squishy assistants. 

We hold a safer space of confidentiality and consent. All practices are optional and there will be no nudity in this workshop. 

This workshop is open for all:
those who love to play with penises, penis owners and their partners, people with other genitals, any gender, gender identity or orientation. We acknowledge that not every person with a penis identifies as male, nor does every male-identifying person have a penis. The only requirement for joining is your curiosity.

maximum participants: 16

location: TillaTec, Jan van Breemenstraat 1


Kinsey Pagden (she, they) is a certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex-coach. Where standard sex therapies often aim to normalize people’s sexual function, somatic sex education is grounded in counter-normative understandings of gender, sex, sexuality and relationship. Kinsey believes that a healthy relationship with our own sexuality is the key to a balanced and happy life, with ourselves, the people we love and the world at large.